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Sunday
2
November
Memorial Services
1:00 pm
Sunday, November 2, 2025
First Presbyterian Church of Cazenovia
27 Albany Street
Cazenovia, New York, United States
Memorial Contributions
CAVAC, 106 Nelson St., Cazenovia, NY 13035 or to the Nottingham Borer Memory Life Community, 1301 Nottingham Road, Jamesville, NY 13078.
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Joel Potash MD posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 5, 2025
Dear Laidman family.
Thanks for your loving comments about your Mom at the Memorial Service in Caz. The large audience showed how well she. Was respected by her community. I was medical director of Hospice of CNY when Peggy helped see up a room in downtown Cazenovia for grieving families to meet and to receive support from Hospice. Peggy served her community in so many other ways, and it was all for helping others, not boosting her own ego. Your experience of her cognitive decline must have been difficult, from my experience with other families dealing with dementia in loved ones. Thanks for hanging in there with her.
Joel Potash MD
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Susie Michael posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 5, 2025
Barclay, Lisa and David -
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your mom. I have fond memories of your mom and mine as members of both ski patrol and CAVAC. Such great role models. I also remember your mom's amazing creative abilities. She would make these incredible outfits for Lisa and my dolls - a full ski outfit or a formal dress. She really touched so many in so many ways.
Keeping you all in my thoughts.
Susie Altmeyer Michael
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Central New York Syracuse Nurses Honor Guard posted a condolence
Sunday, November 2, 2025
The Central New York Syracuse Nurses Honor Guard Coalition wishes to acknowledge the nursing career of Marjorie Laidman RN. We honor Peggy for the difference that she made in the lives of so many patients and colleagues. Our sincere condolences to you, her family. May the love of family and friends give you comfort. May the love of God give you peace.
Sincerely, CNY SYR Nurses Honor Guard
No Nurse is Forgotten
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Jim Hastie posted a condolence
Thursday, October 23, 2025
Many great memories. One of the great benefits of growing up with her children was all the incredible advice and wisdom I picked up whenever I visited. So direct, so honest, such integrity, she definitely made a lasting impression on me as a kid and my values. Rest in peace.
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Cynthia Tilley Cavo posted a condolence
Monday, October 20, 2025
I will always remember as a kid, (Peggy's goddaughter) the excitement of seeing her pull up the circular driveway of our house every December in cold, slick icy conditions, bearing a beautiful ornament to add to my treasured collection. She usually brought pumpkin bread or Christmas cookies, as well. But she knew I was distracted by the glint of a beautiful object. I still safeguard those memories as well as the 18-years'-worth of ornaments, and will always hold them all very, very dear.
I will always remember, so well, our regular visits to Ormond Drive, wading in the Lake, collecting crayfish. Eating sandwiches on the grass. Feeling carefree.
I will always remember year after year, how Peggy and Hume were so generous to lend us their powerboat for prime weeks of summer-Cazenovia waterskiing, tubing, and fishing. Even when Hume's health failed, Peggy made it a priority to lend those boys the boat. As a result, in part, our boys have become great water-men: and I am forever grateful to Peggy and Hume for those memories.
I will always remember Peggy's insight and advice. My most vivid recollection was more recently at a Cazenovia Club event several years ago where she and I were talking about skiing. I had told her of my hip pain and need for an eventual replacement and her response was emphatically: "Never give up skiing. No matter what. Even if you have to take it slow, go on easy runs. Never give it up." I think I will take her advice to heart, I will never give it up.
And this winter, and all those ahead, I will think of you, Peggy, as I float down the mountain. XOXO
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Elizabeth Goudy posted a condolence
Sunday, October 19, 2025
To the Laidman family,
I connected with Peggy when I worked at Hospice. We shared the same disgust for a lawyer that we both had encountered over the years. Oh how we love to talk about him! Peggy was sassy, kind, smart, and welcoming. I spend time at her home with her and Hume. As the years went by, we drifted apart, but always managed to get in touch one way or another to catch up with each other’s lives. Though I have not spoken to her in a while, I will be sad, knowing she’s no longer in the world. My condolences to you all.
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Robert Howard posted a condolence
Sunday, October 19, 2025
If asked who the most influential adults in your childhood were, outside of your parents, folks often recall a schoolteacher or a coach. When I think about that, I recall the parents of my childhood friends growing up in Cazenovia. At the top of that list is Peggy Laidman.
At a time when she no doubt faced the substantial everyday challenges of raising three children, she provided me the good fortune to play a small bit-part in her family as I grew up. Seemingly without much effort, she always made me feel welcome in her home. There were hundreds of interactions during my childhood, mostly small, some larger through the eyes of a young boy, all of them positive. She routinely took an interest her children’s friends lives, occasionally pitched in as a second parent to help me discern right from wrong, and ultimately became an important influence on me growing up as a strong female figure and community leader.
One of my earlier memories is of her teaching me how to politely speak to an adult on the phone. If memory serves, she was a good teacher, I was a fast learner, and I only needed one lesson! Imagine that kids, in the 70s you actually had to memorize a phone number (655-3091) to then call a house where the family all shared the same phone mounted on a wall … and an adult might answer!
All those interactions no doubt added up to me being a better human being. I had an inkling back then, but didn’t fully appreciate till much later in life, how very fortunate I was to grow up in a community with families like the Laidman’s. Sending you all love.
Bob Howard
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